Reflection & Rejuvenation: April
I knew March was going to be crazy, and it was! But it was also a lot of fun.
I found myself getting into a depressed place by the end of it, and it was helpful to step back and realize the sadness was simply coming from the fact that I way over-extended myself during the month and didn’t have anything to do with my actual life. So helpful!
So, April, here we come! How is it that a fourth of the year is already gone? I’m grateful for this monthly practice of spending some quiet time by myself checking in and making sure I’m living the kind of life I want to live.
My Monthly Summit idea has not been working. This month it fell on the same night as a date night. I decided to change it to recur on the 28th of every month, which means I’ll have some leeway to move it by a couple days, if needed.
So what is in store for this month?
- I just sent out the invite for our recurring Saturday Supper. I created a sub-group within our larger neighborhood Nextdoor group for families with children born between 2009-2015 (that’s two years older and two years younger than my children). So I was able to invite those folks as well. It’s really cute that Henry has been begging us to have a Saturday Supper. He loves having people over! I switched the format to potluck so I don’t have to stress about how many people are coming and getting the food right. If more people come, then more food shows up!
- I scheduled my monthly self-care rituals: pedicure and cheap massage at the massage school.
- I am working on scheduling a tennis date with a friend from work. That will mean that I have one evening self-care thing a week, which sounds just right.
- The big thing that is happening this month is my 40th birthday Fantastic Family Fun Fest! We are going camping in Houston with friends. Can’t wait!
I don’t want to forget about our Family Goals for the year:
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Go on 4 day trips
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Eliminate credit card debt and save up for a hot tub!
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Go camping at least two times
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Go to at least two performances
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Play tennis at least six times
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Host at least 10 gatherings
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Plant at least 100 trees
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Go on 3 awesome trips
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Volunteer as a family at least three times
I don’t want to have to cram them in at the end of the year like I did last year. We’ll be going camping this month, having another gathering, and we volunteered and planted trees in March. Seems like we are doing okay!