• Good Times

    Skip the Small Talk: Questions to Go Deeper

    Skip the Small Talk: Henry and Tate talking on top of a climbing wall, eating cherries

    My Myers-Briggs type means I don’t like small talk. A dear friend of mine who knows this about me recently asked what my go-to-questions are to help me skip the small talk. I thought I would share them here in case anyone else is interested!

    My go-to’s are:

    • What are you most excited about in your life right now?
    • What are you most worried about in your life right now? 

    Honestly, those two questions are usually enough to get a good conversation going! I recommend starting with the first one. Even that question can startle people because it’s not as surface as things people usually talk about.

    However, both questions … Read More

  • Good Times

    Fun Card Game: Golf for 2+ Players

    When we weren’t playing cards, we were tubing!

    When our friends visited us from Oakland recently, they taught us a new fun card game we had never played: Golf. (As a side note, I can’t remember if I mentioned their visit or not on the blog! I definitely mentioned it in my weekly newsletter if you haven’t yet subscribed and are interested in doing so. The form is at the bottom of each post or you can go here.)

    Here is how my friends taught me to play it. This version is a variation of the rules I found online.

    Object of This Fun Card Game

    To score the … Read More

  • Crafting

    DIY Halloween Costumes: Time to Get Started

    DIY Halloween costumes from a couple years ago

    I always feel a tad self-conscious when I write posts like this. Especially because I now know that my desire to plan so far ahead is connected to the unpredictability of my childhood! But it is who I am. So I’m here to talk about DIY Halloween costumes. August is here, so it’s time to get started!

    I’ve been doing a good job of using my revamped org system. It means I have a monthly meeting with myself where I review my goals for the year. I also look at my month-by-month plan and add relevant things to my to-do list. To reduce stress in my life, I just … Read More