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How to Talk to White Boys about Our Racist Country
In the span of one week I’m supposed to figure out how to talk to white boys about two mass shootings? Then a factory immigration raid that left children stranded without their parents?
How do I talk to my white boys about racism in a way that:
- doesn’t make them feel bad about themselves (shame does not lead to good outcomes)
- doesn’t bring undue anxiety into their lives
- helps them understand the unfairness of white privilege and the abhorrence of white supremacy in a way that makes them lifelong advocates against these things?
I barely have time to hold my own life together between a more-than-full-time job and trying to … Read More
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School Year Routines: Best Year Yet
School starts this week for my boys. Henry is going into 3rd grade, and Tate is going into 1st. Whenever there are new transitions, I like to step back and reflect on how life is going and see if there are any adjustments I want to make. Specifically, I’m thinking about our school year routines and whether there are any tweaks that will make life feel more joyful, smooth, fun. Parenting is hard for me, Y’all!
School Year Routines: Morning
Matt is in charge of the morning routine. I’ll have to talk with him about what changes he would like to see, if any. From my perspective, the only thing … Read More
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Comfortable Dress: Jersey Fabric with Pockets
This is a Boden model, not me! You all know I don’t talk about fashion much. That’s because I hate shopping! When Kelsey mentioned Boden dresses, I popped over and ordered this dress. It turns out it’s the most comfortable dress I’ve owned in a while!
I then proceeded to order a second one. I didn’t realize the dots are pink. I’m not really a fan of pink and black, but it’s okay. I need at least five things to wear in a work week!
For some reason, these dresses know how to flatter. I don’t get weird ridges around my back fat, and my stomach looks flatter … Read More