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    How to Talk So Kids Will Listen

    How to Talk So Kids Will Listen: walking with Henry

    In part of my quest to double-down on connection with Henry, I started to re-read How to Talk so Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk. I really appreciate this book, as well as their other book about sibling rivalry.

    I’m trying not to just breeze through it and instead slow down and read one chapter at a time. I want to be intentional about incorporating the ideas into my parenting (and support Matt to do the same).

    In Chapter One, there’s a quote that hit me in the gut. There’s a “direct connection between how kids feel and how they behave.” It’s clear to us … Read More

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    The Danish Way of Parenting: Book Recommendation

    I recently read The Danish Way of Parenting and really enjoyed it! Have you read it? (I know I am three years behind the times. This blog is never at the forefront of trends!)

    Denmark is routinely at the top of Happiest Countries in the World lists. This book explores the prevalent Danish parenting style and how it helps grow happy adults.

    Even the way I approached the book highlighted my own American-ness. I wanted “tips and tricks” for how to be a better parent. Instead, the overarching message was more like: “Your children internalize your way of being in the world. If you want children who are relaxed, content, … Read More